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Tuesday, June 29, 2010
An Update of My Status Quo
Monday, June 21, 2010
My Mother – A medical Imbroglio
My mother could easily qualify herself as the best prospect for doctors. She has no qualm at all in seeking all kinds of medical treatments; apparently, she finds solace in doing so. Of course,medical expenses take its toll on my father’s financial reserve.
I could not recollect when was the first time I accompanied my mother to seek medical treatment. According to her, she said she had five major operations. However, while writing this post, I realize it is more than 5 times. Let me chronicle her whirlwind tour in the medical eco-system.
The first operation was something to do with the eyes. She was hospitalized in General Hospital, Singapore. At that time, my credit card was not honoured as the expected medical bill exceeded my credit limit by a large margin. Luckily, it was rescued by my uncle. She spent slightly more than a week and the bill ran into the higher end of the four figures.
The second operation was done on her urinary system. Apparently, there were some blockages in her ureters. Well, it was done in one of the private hospitals in Johor Bahru. I could not remember the cost as it was fully financed by my father.
The third operation was done in the USA. Why USA? Well, it was more of a coincidence than pre-arrangement.
Many months prior to this operation, the cancer marker showed that she might have some cancer cells in the alimentary canal. This discovery triggered a series of unwanted and redundant medical investigations and examinations.
First, the doctors from General Hospital, Johor Bahru carried out a procedure on her called colonoscopy. To perform this procedure, she was required to cleanse her colons with liquid laxative. I remembered she had to drink about 5 litres of such liquid. She complained of the pain induced by the laxative. Anywhere, the mind-boggling part of the procedure was that the person(s) who performed it could not administer the endoscope , thus it resulted a failed procedure. She was again required to consume another 5 litres of the laxative in preparation for the next colonoscopy. Fearing that my mother would not be able to withstand such procedure, we decided that she should be discharged from the hospital.
The next day, she was transferred to one of private hospitals in Johor Bahru. They did an enteroscopy on her, but could not deter anything – NAD ( No abnormality detected.)
Notwithstanding the litany of medical tests and investigations, the result of the cancer marker still bothered us, we decided to give mother a last straw. This time, it was handled by the top specialist in gastroenterology in Singapore. He did colonoscopy and MRI. Again , the final result still ended with NAD.
We felt that since my mother had gone through so many medical investigations, we should not subject her to further agony of medical procedures.
A month later, she went to visit my siblings in U.S. While she was there, my brother took the initiative to refer her to one of his colleagues, a surgeon. The surgeon did a laparoscopic surgery on her, puncturing only two holes on her abdomen. To his surprise, my mother was suffering from appendicitis. I did watch a video recording of the operation, the infected appendix was surgically removed and placed inside a zip-lock bag and subsequently retrieved from the inner body cavity. The operation was done in the morning and amazingly she found herself shopping in the afternoon, what a medical feat.
My mother was examined by two top-notched surgeons, both in Malaysia and Singapore, both of them failed to detect the presence of appendicitis, not forgetting the battery of tests. What can I say?
The fourth operation was cataract surgery. Again, it was done by one of the private ophthalmologists in Johor Bahru.
The operation was done in a haste without taking her sugar level into consideration. As expected, her eye did not recover as expected.
The fifth operation was on her left eye. It was done in General Hospital by the Chief Ophthalmologist. This time, the surgeon took the pain to monitor my mother’s sugar level. it was after few months of controlling and monitoring that my mother was given the OK signal to be operated. The operation was a success.
The sixth operaton was done in University Hospital, PJ. She suffered from a mild fall and the pelvic bone cracked. So a metal implant was introduced to link the pelvic and thigh bones.
Four weeks ago, she was referred to consult a kidney specialist in Johore Bahru as her level of creatinine was three times higher than normal. It could mean that her kidney is operating at about 5% of a normal person. In other words, she may have to go for dialysis. After two consultations, the doctor did not give any conclusive decisions. Instead, my mother was given erythropoietin therapy. My mother is 80-year old and lives in a very quite kampong and my father is a first class husband, why the doctor had to ask for HIV test.
Two weeks ago, she complained of the pain coming from the metal implant. So, we took her to an orthopedic clinic in Johor Bahru. The surgeon did not comment anything about the metal implant but pointed out that lumbar vertebrae ( L2, L3, L4 ) had degenerated so much that they are actually touching each other. Due to her age, surgery was not an option. So, the surgeon could only prescribe pain killer and bone enhancing tablets.
Two weeks after the orthopedic consultation in Johore Bahru, the radius of pain had extended and I promptly received a call from her. She told me that she had to seek a second opinion. Well, the nearest clinic is in Kluang.
The pain was in fact caused by the failure of orthopaedic implant. If you look at the x-ray shown below, the main part of the implant had no support whatsoever and it became a moving part.
My biggest disappointment was why the surgeon in Johore Bahru did not detect this defect, even without this x-ray taken few months ago.
Instead, he conveniently diagnosed the pain to be originated from the lumbar vertebrae.
Prior to the operation, the anesthetist gave me a long catalogue of warnings and asked me to sign the letter of consent. The biggest complication in the surgery could result in a heart attack. OMG, I was conveniently given to shoulder all the responsibilities should the operation fail. To be or not to be, it was a decision that you wished that you never had to make especially when you were out on a limb.
Despite her age and diabetic condition, in the throes of making a decision, my mother took a gamble on her life and went along with the operation. The operation took two and half hours to complete, replacing the old metal implant with a new one.
For the curious readers, the new implant looks as follows.
My mother was discharged after 7-night stay at the hospital. Now, she can walk much better than before with the help of the walker.
After the pelvic surgery, she is on a 3-month Forteo ( teriparatide ) program, why the doctor still prescribes calcium supplement. This is another soul searching answer?
As you can see, they are competent and non-competent doctors. Even if they are competent, they do draw the wrong conclusion. There are so many unanswered questions why the doctors chose to take certain decisions and actions, their conducts are moot, do they have a special axe to grind? I am not discharging a deluge of complaints and belittling the conducts of doctors, but just stating the facts, I hope the learned readers could read between the lines.
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Life is based on Papers
Very good, very, true, very meaningful !!!
出生一張紙,開始一輩子;
畢業一張紙,奮鬥一輩子;
婚姻一張紙,折磨一輩子;
做官一張紙,鬥爭一輩子;
金錢一張紙,辛苦一輩子;
榮譽一張紙,虛名一輩子;
看病一張紙,痛苦一輩子;
悼詞一張紙,了結一輩子;
淡化這些紙,明白一輩子;
忘了這些紙,快樂一輩子 !
這週是世界好友週,如果你願意,
請把這條資訊發給你所有的好朋友 。
也包括我 ⋯⋯ 看有多少人會回發給你。
當大部分人都在關注你飛得高不高時,
只有少部分人關心你飛得累不累,
這就是 友情。
再忙,也要照顧好自己,
朋 友 雖不常聯繫,卻一直 惦念。
天涼時記著多穿衣!
世界好 友周快樂!
少喝奶茶、不吃剛烤好的麵包,
遠離正在充電的電源。
白天多喝水,晚上少喝,
一天不喝多於兩杯的咖啡。
少吃油多的食物,
最佳睡眠為晚上十點至早上六點
晚上五點後少吃大餐,
每天喝酒不超過一杯。
不用冷水服膠囊,
睡前半小時服藥忌立刻躺下。
睡眠不足八小時人會變笨,
有午睡習慣的人不易老。
手機電池剩一格時不要打電話,
剩一格時輻射是平時的一千倍。
Monday, March 22, 2010
Why English Is Such A Difficult Language to Master?
Subject: RE: xxxxx Nite 2010
Date: Mon, 15 Mar 2010 11:07:57 +0800
Hi there,
Good day.
Thank for your attention and interest.
I regret for my late inform, which about the dateline of registration. The registration has already closed, due to there was a dateline for us to finalize the number of table.
Anyway, i was glad to heard from you with the replied, thank you. we shall arrange another dinner to involve all of u, perhaps it will be next xxxx Nite, will inform u guys earlier.
Thank you, and have a prosperous tiger year~^^
Regards,
xxxx
Visited snatch thief victim and family in Salak South for second time
Yesterday (18 March 2010), I went to visit snatch thief victim 18-year old Chong Chooi Yoon at her home in Salak South area which is part of my Seputeh constituency. You might have read in the papers that she was a victim of snatch thief just a few days before Chinese New Year. It was…
Any comment on her writing?
Did she go to two places, namely the victim and another family?
I wonder why she wrote “ I went to visit” instead of “ I visited”, was it a translation from Chinese language?
“Go to” is always followed by “someone” or “ something”.
Example:-
i. I went to her for advice. – someone
ii. I go to the bank. – something.

Sunday, March 14, 2010
Another Problem for Hacking Your Brain
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Difference between Problem and Exercise
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Coffee Shop That Dares to Dictate Terms on Customers


Friday, March 5, 2010
Maybank Share 100305
Thursday, March 4, 2010
MAY BE ( NOT MY ORIGINAL WORK)
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Did I Buy a "Dead Ringer" in Guangzhou?














Monday, February 22, 2010
AM I BEING FLEECED FOR THE MAXIS DATA USAGE

I was slapped RM127.24 for 15.714KB. Upon checking my iphone, I realized that my iphone did some hand-shaking with the Maxis’s GPRS.
I called 123 and spoke to the Maxis Consultant about this extra ordinary item in my statement. The consultant gave me some vague answers as follows:-
- I did make a request to cancel the 3G service on Jan, 2009.
- The 3G service was activated via my iphone on 17 Dec, 2009.
- The 3G service could be activated by sending *136# or deactivated with *136#4#.
On checking all the available records that transpired on 17 Dec, 2009, I could not find the lead on why the phone was activated with internet service.
The only conclusions that I could draw from all the possible circumstantial evidences are as follows:-
- My friend did a prank on me, keyed in the *136# using my iphone.
- The Maxis Computer System activated itself the service without my knowledge.
- I keyed in the *136# myself during my sleep.
- Someone had cloned my sim card and activated the system.
Can the learned reader offers any better postulation on why my phone was activated?
Would you want to pay about RM8 for 1 MB for internet usage?
Monday, January 18, 2010
English Usage in China

Saturday, January 9, 2010
A Tale of Two Cities

Thursday, January 7, 2010
Books That You Must Read
New Year resolution comes in many flavours. As far I am concerned, I would like to spend much of my time on watching movies and reading books. So, the books listed below are my recommendation. I will list the highly recommended movies in my next post.
Author. | Title. | |||
Aeschylus | Prometheus Bound | |||
Alcott, Louisa May | Little Women | |||
Anderson, Sherwood | Winesburg, Ohio | |||
Anderson, Hans Christian | Fairy Tales | |||
Aristotle | The Poetics | |||
Augustine of Hippo | The Confessions | |||
Austen, Jane | Emma | |||
Austen, Jane | Mansfield Park | |||
Austen, Jane | Northanger Abbey | |||
Austen, Jane | Persuasion | |||
Austen, Jane | Pride and Prejudice | |||
Austen, Jane | Sense and Sensibility | |||
Balzac, Honore de | Colonel Chabert | |||
Balzac, Honore de | Cousin Bette | |||
Balzac, Honore de | The Country Doctor | |||
Balzac, Honore de | Father Goriot | |||
Barrie, J.M. | Peter Pan | |||
Bellamy, Edward | Looking Backward | |||
[Anonymous] | Beowulf | |||
The Bible, King James Version | ||||
The Bible, New Testament (KJV) | ||||
The Bible, Old Testament (KJV) | ||||
Blake, William | Songs of Innocence and Experience | |||
Boccaccio, Giovanni | The Decameron | |||
Bronte, Anne | Agnes Grey | |||
Bronte, Anne | The Tenant of Wildfell Hall | |||
Bronte, Charlotte | Jane Eyre | |||
Bronte, Charlotte | Villette | |||
Bronte, Emily | Wuthering Heights | |||
Browning, Elizabeth Barrett | Sonnets from the Portuguese | |||
Browning, Robert | Selected Poetry | |||
Bunyan, John | The Pilgrim's Progress | |||
Cather, Willa | ||||
Cather, Willa | Death Comes for the Archbishop | |||
Cervantes, Miguel de | Don Quixote | |||
Chaucer, Geoffrey | The Canterbury Tales | |||
Chekhov, Anton | The Seagull | |||
Chekhov, Anton | Uncle Vanya | |||
Chopin, Kate | The Awakening & Selected Stories | |||
Coleridge, Samuel Taylor | Poetry & Rime of the Ancient Mariner | |||
Collins, Wilkie | The Law and the Lady | |||
Collins, Wilkie | The Moonstone | |||
Collins, Wilkie | The Woman in White | |||
Conrad, Joseph | Heart of Darkness | |||
Conrad, Joseph | Lord Jim | |||
Conrad, Joseph | Nostromo | |||
Conrad, Joseph | The Secret Sharer | |||
Conrad, Joseph | Typhoon | |||
Crane, Stephen | The Red Badge of Courage | |||
Dana, Richard Henry | Two Years Before the Mast | |||
Dante, Alighieri | The Divine Comedy | |||
Darwin, Charles | Origin of the Species | |||
Defoe, Daniel | Robinson Crusoe | |||
Defoe, Daniel | Moll Flanders | |||
Dickens, Charles | Bleak House | |||
Dickens, Charles | A Christmas Carol | |||
Dickens, Charles | David Copperfield | |||
Dickens, Charles | Great Expectations | |||
Dickens, Charles | Nicholas Nickleby | |||
Dickens, Charles | Oliver Twist | |||
Dickens, Charles | Pictures from Italy | |||
Dickens, Charles | The Pickwick Papers | |||
Dickens, Charles | A Tale of Two Cities | |||
Dickinson, Emily | Collected Poems. | |||
Donne, John | Songs and Sonnets | |||
Dostoyevsky, Fyodor | Crime and Punishment | |||
Dostoyevsky, Fyodor | The Double | |||
Dostoyevsky, Fyodor | The Gambler | |||
Dostoyevsky, Fyodor | Notes from the Underground | |||
Dostoyevsky, Fyodor | The Idiot | |||
Douglass, Frederick | Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass | |||
Doyle, Arthur Conan, Sir | The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes | |||
Doyle, Arthur Conan, Sir | The Hound of the Baskervilles | |||
Doyle, Arthur Conan, Sir | Memoirs of Sherlock Holmes | |||
Doyle, Arthur Conan, Sir | The Return of Sherlock Holmes | |||
Doyle, Arthur Conan, Sir | His Last Bow | |||
Doyle, Arthur Conan, Sir | The Case Book of Sherlock Holmes | |||
Dreiser, Theodore | Sister Carrie | |||
Dumas, Alexandre, pere | The Count of Monte Cristo | |||
Dumas, Alexandre | The Three Musketeers | |||
Eliot, George | Adam Bede | |||
Eliot, George | Daniel Deronda | |||
Eliot, George | Middlemarch | |||
Eliot, George | The Mill on the Floss | |||
Eliot, George | Silas Marner | |||
Eliot, T. S. | The Wasteland | |||
Eliot, T. S. | The Lovesong of J. Alfred Prufrock & Other Poems | |||
Emerson, Ralph Waldo | Essays | |||
Fielding, Henry | The History of Tom Jones | |||
Fitzgerald, F. Scott | The Great Gatsby | |||
Flaubert, Gustav | Madame Bovary. | |||
Forster, E. M. | Howard's End. | |||
Forster, E. M. | A Room With a View. | |||
Forster, E. M. | Where Angels Fear to Tread. | |||
Frost, Robert | Collected Poems. | |||
Gibran, Khalil | The Madman | |||
Gibran, Khalil | The Prophet | |||
Gissing, George | New Grub Street | |||
Gissing, George | The Odd Women | |||
Goethe, Johann Wolfgang von | The Sorrows of Young Werther | |||
Gogol, Nikolai | Dead Souls | |||
Gogol, Nikolai | The Inspector General | |||
Gogol, Nikolai | The Overcoat | |||
Hardy, Thomas | Far from the Madding Crowd | |||
Hardy, Thomas | Jude the Obscure | |||
Hardy, Thomas | The Mayor of Casterbridge | |||
Hardy, Thomas | The Return of the Native | |||
Hardy, Thomas | Tess of the D'Urbervilles | |||
Hawthorne, Nathaniel | The House of the Seven Gables | |||
Hawthorne, Nathaniel | The Scarlet Letter | |||
Hawthorne, Nathaniel | The Blithedale Romance | |||
Hawthorne, Nathaniel | Twice Told Tales | |||
Hesse, Hermann | Siddhartha | |||
Homer | The Iliad | |||
Homer | The Odyssey | |||
Hugo, Victor | Les Miserables | |||
Huxley, Aldous | Brave New World | |||
Ibsen, Henrik | A Doll's House | |||
Kafka, Franz | The Metamorphosis | |||
James, Henry | Daisy Miller | |||
James, Henry | The Ambassadors | |||
James, Henry | The American | |||
James, Henry | The Turn of the Screw | |||
James, Henry | The Portrait of a Lady | |||
James, Henry | Washington Square | |||
Joyce, Jame | Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man | |||
Joyce, James | Dubliners | |||
Joyce, James | Ulysses | |||
Kafka, Franz | The Metamorphosis | |||
Keats, John | Collected Poems | |||
The Koran (Qu'ran) | ||||
Kipling, Rudyard | Captains Courageous | |||
Kipling, Rudyard | Kim | |||
Khayyam, Omar | The Rubaiyat | |||
Lawrence, D. H. | Sons and Lovers | |||
Lawrence, D. H. | Women in Love | |||
Lewis, Sinclair | Babbit | |||
Lewis, Sinclair | Main Street | |||
Locke, John | Second Treatise on Civil Government | |||
London, Jack | The Call of the Wild | |||
Machiavelli, Nicolo | The Prince | |||
Malory, Thomas | Le Mort D'Arthur | |||
Marlowe, Christopher | Dr. Faustus | |||
Marx, Kar | The Communist Manifesto | |||
Melville, Herman | Bartleby, the Scrivener | |||
Mellville, Herman | Billy Budd | |||
Mellville, Herman | Moby Dick | |||
Mellville, Herman | Typee | |||
Meredith, George | The Egoist | |||
Milton, John | Paradise Lost | |||
Milton, John | Paradise Regained | |||
Moliere | The Miser | |||
More, Thomas, Sir, Saint | Utopia | |||
Nietzsche, Friedrich | Beyond Good and Evil | |||
Orwell, George | 1984 | |||
Orwell, George | Animal Farm | |||
Paine, Thomas | Common Sense | |||
Plato | The Republic | |||
Poe, Edgar Allen | Collected Tales | |||
Pope, Alexander | The Rape of the Lock | |||
Rousseau, Jean-Jacques | The Confessions | |||
Rousseau, Jean-Jacques | The Social Contract | |||
Sand, George | Mauprat | |||
Rowlandson, Mary | Narrative of the Captivity and Restoration | |||
Scott, Sir Walter | Guy Mannering | |||
Scott, Sir Walter | Ivanhoe | |||
Shakespeare, William | Sonnets | |||
Shakespeare, William | As You Like It | |||
Shakespeare, William | All's Well That Ends Well | |||
Shakespeare, William | Antony and Cleopatra | |||
Shakespeare, William | A Comedy of Errors | |||
Shakespeare, William | Hamlet | |||
Shakespeare, William | King Lear | |||
Shakespeare, William | Macbeth | |||
Shakespeare, William | The Merchant of Venice | |||
Shakespeare, William | Much Ado About Nothing | |||
Shakespeare, William | Julius Caesar | |||
Shakespeare, William | Romeo and Juliet | |||
Shakespeare, William | A Midsummer Night's Dream | |||
Shakespeare, William | Othello | |||
Shakespeare, William | Twelfth Night | |||
Shakespeare, William | Two Gentlemen of Verona | |||
Shaw, George Bernard | Candida | |||
Shaw, George Bernard | Pygmalion | |||
Shelley, Mary | Frankenstein | |||
Sinclair, Upton | The Jungle | |||
Sophocles | ||||
Stendhal | The Red and the Black | |||
Sterne, Lawrence | Tristram Shandy | |||
Stevenson, Robert Louis | Treasure Island | |||
Stoker, Bram | Dracula | |||
Stowe, Harriet Beecher | Uncle Tom's Cabin | |||
Sun Tzu | The Art of War | |||
Swift, Jonathan | A Modest Proposal | |||
Swift, Jonathan | Gulliver's Travels | |||
Tennyson, Alfred | Idylls of the King | |||
Thackeray, William Makepeace | Vanity Fair | |||
Thoreau, Henry David | On Civil Disobedience | |||
Thoreau, Henry David | Walden | |||
Thucydides | History of the Pelyponnesion Wars | |||
Tolstoy, Leo | Anna Karenina | |||
Tolstoy, Leo | War and Peace | |||
Trollope, Anthony | Barchester Towers | |||
Trollope, Anthony | The Way We Live Now | |||
Truth, Sojourner [Gilbert] | The Narrative of Sojourner Truth | |||
Twain, Mark | The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn | |||
Twain, Mark | The Adventures of Tom Sawyer | |||
Twain, Mark | The Innocents Abroad | |||
Twain, Mark | Life on the Mississippi | |||
Twain, Mark | The Mysterious Stranger | |||
Twain, Mark | On the Decay of the Art of Lying | |||
Twain, Mark | The Prince and the Pauper | |||
Twain, Mark | Pudd'nhead Wilson | |||
U. S. | United States Constitution | |||
U. S. | Declaration of Independence | |||
Verne, Jules | Twenty Thousand Leagues Under the Sea | |||
Verne, Jules | Around the World in Eighty Days | |||
Voltaire | Candide | |||
Wells, H. G. | War of the Worlds | |||
Wells, H. G. | The Time Machine | |||
Wharton, Edith | The Age of Innocence | |||
Wharton, Edith | The House of Mirth | |||
Wharton, Edith | Ethan Frome | |||
Whitman, Walt | Leaves of Grass | |||
Wilde, Oscar | The Picture of Dorian Grey | |||
Wollstonecraft, Mary | A Vindication of the Rights of Woman | |||
Wordsworth, William | Lyrical Ballads | |||
Wordsworth, William | The Prelude | |||
Woolf, Virginia | A Room of One's Own |